Surprisingly
So what is the most attractive trait in a woman for a man? Independence... Turns out that men love independent women because they are not needy. Neediness is a turnoff. I agree that this goes both ways. There is nothing like chasing someone else off by being too needy because you start to feel suffocated around them. People like being with people who are interesting and chasing their own dreams: Not people who cling to you like Velcro. You know what I'm talking about.
