Why?
Have you ever noticed that cheaters are married to very trusting people?
Stories of cheaters have come across my path over the years: For instance there was the guy who divorced his wife for adultery and then found out that some of the children that he had raised over the years were not actually his. Or the guy who was expecting a child only to realize that the baby coming out of his wife could not possibly be his.
I remember sitting in the airport one day only to see the guy sitting across from me move his ring from one hand to the other... Are you married? Are you not? A cheating heart...
A friend of mine told me how she found out that her husband was cheating on her. She woke up one morning and felt a strong compulsion to drive to the airport. When she got there she saw her husband walk out with another woman.
I think deep down inside a spouse knows... It starts out with a suspicion. Then becomes a gut feeling. Until one day the inevitable happens.
It's ironic to me that a cheater won't pick another cheater to get married to. It's like they feel like they can have their cake and eat it too. I have never understood women who have gotten married to guys who love them and put them in a place of love and respect only to have an affair with a guy who only wants one thing. Do these women have any self-respect? Do they even care how much it cheapens their self-worth? And it works both ways. A guy that cheats is the scum of the earth. God curses adulterers. Do you want to be cursed for the rest of your life? According to the Bible you can divorce your spouse for adultery.
