Vs A Good Mother
We laugh at movies like Bad Moms but sadly enough there are people in this world that were simply not meant to be parents. Being a parent takes a lot of hard work, dedication, and sacrifice. Some mothers value their creature comforts over that of their children but other mothers put their children's creature comforts ahead of their own. If you are the type of person that would rather do your own thing rather than spend time with your child than you know what your priorities are: Selfish rather than selfless.
I have friends who have children and they simply gave up a lot of the stuff they used to do when they became parents. They only traveled if it was required for work and if their child became sick they would drop everything to be by their side. Being a parent is a learning curve but hopefully in the end you have a child that loves you.