Thursday, September 6, 2018

Finding Yourself

Not in Paris but in San Francisco


If you have ever watched the movie Sabrina then you know that Paris is where you go to find yourself.  You spend your days taking long walks and sitting in cafes while writing in a journal.  However you can also find yourself walking along the piers of San Francisco.

Do you truly know yourself?  Some people spend their whole lives not knowing who they are.  They become what other people want them to be or they absorb another person's persona.  It's the same with finding your soulmate.  You can't find the person you are meant to be with until you truly know yourself.  Otherwise you will come up with a false positive.  So many people are searching for someone they think they want only to realize that maybe they didn't find the right person after all.  However the most important question of all?  Are you right for the person you want?  Not always...  Are you going to keep a person against their will because of your selfishness?  True love is letting go...  True love is mutual...  If it's not mutual it's not real...  Selfish love is making someone miserable because you think they need to be with you when they don't.