Finding Yourself
Everyone is so concerned with finding that perfect someone irregardless of who they are that fail to realize that maybe they are not who or where they should be. So many people think as long as that person is cute or has money that that is the only thing they need. Not! You have to go a lot deeper than that. You need to have shared values and shared interests. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. You can't be a chameleon. Chameleons are false positives. You can't keep up that act forever. If you know someone is not for you then let them go. Why go through a lifetime together only to realize that you settled? I remember someone telling me that her fiancee asked her on their wedding day if she really wanted to get married. Of course she said yes. So they got married, had kids, and then when the kids were grown he divorced her. Believe me if you are not with the right one let them go so you can meet the right one. You want to be with someone who really wants to be with you. Not someone who was just hum ho. Don't you think?
