On Cinderella's Stepsisters
You hear people say, "if
the shoe fits, wear it," but nowhere does it say to cram your foot into a
shoe that is too tight or too large for your foot especially if your
foot is going to be bleeding by the end of the night. Now I'm not saying
that I personally am Cinderella but rather that we all are. There are a
horde of princes out there in all shapes and sizes but not every prince
is meant to be for just you or me.
We each have a
prince with a shoe that fits but if you keep trying to make a prince fit
you because you think he is the "end all be all" then you may very well
realize that he is really not what you wanted in the first place. Some
of us are fortunate enough to have found our prince and some of us have
not. Why? I don't know... For example: Take
Scarlett O'Hara and Rhett Butler.
They were pretty equally matched but Scarlett kept pining after Ashley
who didn't have the guts to tell her he really didn't feel the same way.
In
order for love to work it has to be mutual. If you have to be someone
that you're not in order to "fit" with that person then you are not in a
genuine relationship. You are faking it. Do yourself a favor and
don't fake it. Ever!